Leo Woman and Scorpio Man

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What makes us?

Leo and Scorpio can make for an unbreakable connection – these two signs are mirrored Suns. (Full explanation here.) More than being mirror partners, there’s a real giving quality to this romance.

Both might be tempted to try and play “tit for tat” and put the brakes on giving to each other, demanding something in return. That doesn’t last long: they realise giving to each other is the truest version of themselves.

What breaks us?

He can be tempted to try and search for vulnerability within her by holding out on her from time to time, only in an effort to match his own vulnerability – though he won’t necessarily be ready to explain or even understand this motivation within him. She’s also much less willing to forgive, than he is, when in love. Overall we’ve found Leo far too infatuated and willing to bend for Scorpio in the honeymoon phase, only to regret it later. Letting go of keeping scores is a common issue.

Can it work between Leo Woman and Scorpio Man ?

It just takes being adaptable to the big power shift between Leo and Scorpio. Often Leo starts out as the giver and remains so, throughout the relationship. The difference along the way? She learns to take pride in doing so, without keeping score. That gives her an immense amount of self-control in the relationship that was once, at the beginning, a quality he had that she envied. How to deal with your power shift? Read more below.

Sagittarius Woman and Leo Man

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What makes them?

It’s hard for either of these two signs to do any less than wear heart on sleeve. She’s good at letting him know where he stands, even if he may wish she’d change her ideas, and he’s good at letting her know there’s a place for all her energy a little closer to home.

What breaks them?

Despite the best intentions, in the here and now Sagittarius and Leo are riddled with miscommunication. As mentioned, he’s probably going to wind up wishing she saw life differently and he’s probably be better off not trying to convince her otherwise. She often wishes he would lighten up about himself, like he did in the old days when they could laugh at life.

Can it work between Sagittarius Woman and Leo Man ?

Both these two fundamentally want different things, not so much out of life but out of a loving romance, without realising it. It’s hard for these two Fire signs to ever read from the same page.

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Sagittarius Woman and Leo Man in romance can leave two well-meaning lovers and friends disappointed by how much of a dog’s dinner they’ve made out of their initially light and energetic bond, often tunnelling into different directions and building walls between them before they’ve even noticed it’s too late to go back. She can wind up making him feel like he has to play it cool in order to keep her around, but he’s never been very good at being less than bashful and unashamed about his romantic intentions in the long-term.

Leo Woman and Sagittarius Man

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What makes them?

It’s hard for either of these two signs to do any less than wear heart on sleeve, and the lengths they’re willing to go for people they decide they care for can give them both hope that good lies out there for the future.

What breaks them?

Despite the future best intentions, in the here and now Sagittarius and Leo are riddled with miscommunication. It’s the type of wires crossed that frustrates them into a premature end, most of the time.

Can it work between Leo Woman and Sagittarius Man ?

Both these two fundamentally want different things, not so much out of life but out of a loving romance, without realising it. Often because they’re two very loving individuals in their own right. It’s hard for these two Fire signs to ever read from the same page.

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A Leo Woman and Sagittarius Man in romance can leave two well-meaning individuals disappointed by missed opportunities, and even surprise at just how far they’ve ploughed into different directions without realising. They can either play it very cool or very showy on the surface, in getting to know one another. But their propensity for acting on what they want, without necessarily taking into account the perspective of the other’s needs, can drive a wedge in between these two Fire signs that often proves hard to overcome. Sometimes the miscommunication happens so soon into the relationship that it may have done them a favour in abandoning pursuit, and taking time out to measure if they really want the same things.

Gemini Woman and Leo Man

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What makes us?

Leo holds the energy to uncap Gemini to the fullest (the question later is: will he take advantage of that like she wants him to?). Arguably no other sign taps a Gemini into their instincts like Leo does – this is one romance where she will see a picture clearly, with no talk of twins, duplicity or any of that involved here. It’s very single-minded romance for Gemini, and you’re both strong on intimacy if you want it – it’s right there on the table. 

From Leo’s side, he’s always pictured having a friend like her – he enjoys her company, an important quality to long-term relationships.

What breaks us?

I often write about how intimacy can either kill electricity, or complement it. Fine-tuning that in this relationship is your biggest obstacle on paper. No one wants to be sleeping with their best friend all the time, least of all Gemini once she’s been introduced to this new side of herself through Leo’s company. You’re going to want to be able to detach from one another in a while, put on a chase – a pursuit between strangers all over again. Rejuvenate your erotic attraction to one another – Leo you’ll probably have to be a little more perceptive about Gemini’s dirty side; she’s reserved it for you. Frankly, she probably hasn’t wanted to explore that side to such a level before she met you.

Can it work between Gemini Woman and Leo Man ?

Your relationship has everything you need for it to work, at different stages in your life. Some romances, on paper, only look like they work at certain ages (mostly due to emotional patterns) in our adult lives, but Leo and Gemini is a couple for all seasons. I know I’ve made most of this relationship sound like Gemini is the saucepot of the two, but what I’m really looking to get across here (for Leo to understand) is you have to power to expose her vulnerability to a relationship; exposing her to a kind of commitment she’s probably never contemplated wanting before you both met. At no point does that guarantee you’ll both just have to sit there and let all of this come to you, it’s merely an opportunity between your two Sun houses – you mostly have to work for that opportunity to turn into something real.

What do we mean by Gemini vulnerability here? In Gemini’s house of everyday routine (Gemini 6th) is where Leo’s house of intimacy and secrets overlap (Leo 4th). End result? She’s more than ready and capable of building boundaries to protect him and their private time together, she’s the main protector of this relationship. It may be understated or an underhanded manner in which she goes about protecting it, but it’s there nonetheless – on paper, Gemini is the one to want to lock this good thing down. How many times will you hear that about a Gemini in astro relationship articles? Rarely ever.

Leo might undervalue that and switch up the pace on her from time to time. He could choose to trust the wrong people in her eyes, or simply throw her under the bus if he doesn’t get the kind of control he wants in this relationship. There’s a potential here for using her vulnerability against her, or simply mistiming your expectations to the point you misunderstand how important this love of yours is becoming, to one another. Timing your priorities and agreeing to move on them together becomes very important to a happy Leo-Gemini couple, here.

Then, of course, there is the sex thing we’ve already confronted earlier. In Leo’s house of lovers (Leo 5th) is where Gemini’s house of partnership overlaps (Gemini 7th); she often rewards him as a lover for being ‘Mr. Right’, but she can regret it later when he doesn’t see the need to be ‘Mr. Right Now’, too. Really don’t overdo it with the mushy stuff or backslapping one another for ‘being there’ for one another. You need to be able to re-introduce some excitement, some erotic games and some detachment into your sex life together – every couple does. On paper here, that can really be an obstacle for Leo and Gemini and it falls upon Gemini to be upfront about her desires for more, so that both can cater to your erotic needs.

The above only covers two of your Sun houses overlapping, there are 8 more in a full reading with me when you want to take out a lovers reading at the blog. If you’re unsure of a reading and still want to work through this Leo-Gemini affair yourself, my pointers are below.

Figure out how strong your Mercury leads your Gemini’s chart; and how strong your Sun leads your Leo’s chart. Mercury rules Gemini by day only, so if you are dating a Gemini born at night or a Leo with weak Sun energy in their houses, their personality inside a relationship can reflect very differently to what’s typically written about either of these signs in love. Figure out the rest of your ten planets if you’re having big differences and misunderstandings with your Gemini or Leo. When you need further insight, and for someone to save you time figuring out your lovers chart together with you – hit me up for an overnight reading here.

Gemini Woman and Scorpio Man

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What makes them?

They can teach each other a phenomenal amount about insight into human behaviour, which fascinates both on very different levels.

What breaks them?

Learning these kind of lessons within your lover can either make them a formidable partner or, more likely, the reason you never quite allow your guard down around anyone. Is that enough to fulfill either of them after a long enough time? It can take a lifetime to find out.

Can it work between Gemini Woman and Scorpio Man ?

Often the way Gemini and Scorpio cannot keep their hands off each other makes us believe they are the true opposites of the zodiac. A Romeo and Juliet type of romance, where both keep each other on their toes for a lifetime, is in store here. Just try and avoid the unfortunate death scenes at the end.


“‘In fair Verona!” is often what should prelude any romance blossoming between a Gemini Woman and Scorpio Man, and blossom it will. The strong – sometimes toxic – hold these two lovers have on each other often seems like the opposition to end all oppositions in astrology, but a true opposition is built on really getting to know one another’s person whereas this romance can work on illusion of sleeping with the enemy.

We don’t want to make it seem as fatalistic as it sounds, yet the truth is Scorpio Man quite likes a large dose of fatalism in his love life and Gemini Woman is thrilled to be the independent spirit to indulge him further.

Scorpio Man is an audacious lover who has no problem telling his partner exactly what he expects of her

Gemini Woman and Sagittarius Man

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What makes us?

They’re big believers in freedom at all costs, taking big risks together to prove that where no one else would. Both signs are about duality. More specifically: Gemini warns the real meaning of a message is lost in its translation (3rd house), whereas the Sagittarius warns the real meaning of nature is lost in its perception.

As opposites, you’ll want to avoid getting lost in translation with each other. Unless you just really, really want to live out your Bill Murray-Scalett Johansson moment together in a foreign country. The less words, the better either way. You can both help each find peace and not get stuck on the fork in the road between truth and lies, like no other couple can do for one another.

What breaks us?

This is the least convincing opposite of opposite signs, to me. Opposite is all about projection, but a lot of what could stir up blame, loss and projection here gets lost in all the duality. In real-life terms: We don’t see Geminis and Sags get worked up over each other nearly enough as you would expect opposites to do. Where there’s usually passion and make-up or break-up sex with opposites, these two like to play it cool with indifference. Is that even fun?

As with all opposite signs, you find your ideal partner reflected in the self-image of the other. Gemini’s house of self-image (1st) overlaps with Sag’s house of partnership (7th). (This can change if you know your full chart, and your rising sign). A potentially strong sexual connection means everything about personal freedom to express yourselves is in the balance here. You both care that your partner allows you to express yourself how you want, when you want.

If you misunderstand each other, and take the talking too far – you can feel like you question how you express yourself, considering the other person doesn’t seem to give your voice any credit – when they are the one person who should really be listening intently, picking out all the truth from between the bluffing. As mentioned earlier, if you both make one another feel lost in translation then you may just give up trying to really reach one another at all.


Can it work between Gemini Woman and Sagittarius Man ?

It can work but, after years of chart readings, it’s a 50/50 from us to you both on this one. Remember, you’re both Mutable: you will both go through phases where you seek to feel like you’ve got the right to experience your emotions without justifying them or search for consistency (in general, not just with your relationship). You just want to see your changes in how you react to old situations happen, and process them one by one. That takes both Gemini and Sag not questioning each other on every little moment of change, but rather just observing each other respectfully.

What we’re getting at here is: more listening, less questions (both ways). There will be time for the right questions – the ones that matter – later. Read more tips below.


With opposite signs, there’s a natural struggle to accept their own individual selves – let alone accept one another. You’ll want to project all of your worst flaws onto one another: Geminis claims Sagittarius are never really there (but frankly, Geminis are guilty of hiding in plain sight). Sagittarius will claim Geminis have an explanation for everything (really, Sag? Have you heard yourself try to explain everyone else’s problems away? Try stepping out of yourself some time to actually watch yourself doing it).

When observation in perfect sync with genuine vulnerability, this relationship can be incredibly accepting and pick out well-timed moments to savour that the rest of the crowd will miss. But, when mistimed and misfired, it’s a lot of distance and cold war drama, over nothing.

Figure out how strong your Jupiter leads your Sag’s chart; and how strong your Mercury leads your Gemini’s chart. Both Jupiter and Mercury only rule Aries and Libra by day so, if you are dating a Sag or Gemini born in the nighttime, the energy throughout their chart can be spread very differently to what’s typically written about either of these signs in love. Figure out the rest of your ten planets if you’re having big differences and misunderstandings with your Sag or Gemini. That’s all I have to say here, when you need further insight into your lovers chart together – hit me up for an overnight reading here.

Sagittarius Woman and Sagittarius Man

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What makes us?

What could be better than same-sign partners? The idea may put your feet to sleep, if you prefer differences leading to electric passion, but same-sign marriages are the typically the most successful. There is a LOT of rubbish online about how Sags are freedom-loving and hard to pin down. Sometimes true, but astro articles take it to caricature levels. At it’s heart, Sagittarius is an energy about the duality of man, finding out the difference how he perceives nature and really experience nature in itself. It’s like the difference between breathing someone else’s passive smoke, and the first time you really took a drag off a cigarette for yourself behind your parents’ back. One is understanding what risk exists out there, the other is living through risk itself. With a fellow Sag, you’ll know to bring your own pack of cigarettes, condoms and your own life experience in order to force them to unmask and share themselves.

What breaks us?

This relationship is a challenge for both of them to play their cards straight – something both may not be used to doing – and it especially falls upon Sagittarius Man not to pull his famous bait and switch. There a big temptation for these two to resort to obnoxiousness as a defence, when they get together. You’ll recognise that bad habit in one another.

Can it work between Sagittarius Woman and Sagittarius Man ?

They’re usually both the adaptable partner in romance, but they’ll both be looking to the other for consistency. If a Sagittarius Man is significantly more experienced and mature than his partner in romance, he can make anything work – including this one.


First impressions count for much, and they’re usually extremely positive in Sagittarius Woman and Sagittarius Man encounters. Yet like all mutable signs, these two Centaurs should know better that much lies beneath the initial stages. Both Sagittarius people can share common flaws, changing the rules of their romance as they see fit. Whereas other people may have been more tolerant of their fluid rules, we know that Sagittarius is the one sign that can be rely upon to give a running narrative of how they feel in the moment. It’s a trait that makes it hard for these two not to get into a shouting match unless they agree to play their cards straight, from beginning to end.

There isn’t much else to say about how romance plays out between two Suns of the same sign, before knowing the rest of your chart first (I can’t do this part for you from here – you either have to look up your chart or get in touch with me for a reading). Where the differences happen will be in the rest of your chart, if you’re a Sagittarius Woman courting a Sagittarius Man right now – or vice-versa.

Figure out how strong your Jupiter leads your chart; and figure out the rest of your ten planets if you’re having big differences and misunderstandings with another Sagittarius. Another key difference for Sags, is whether you are born at day or night. Jupiter energy only rules a Sagittarius chart if they were born during the day, and you may experience big differences in approach with a fellow Sag who was born at night. That’s all I have to say here, when you need further insight into your lovers chart together – hit me up for an overnight reading here.

 

Gemini Woman and Gemini Man

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What makes us?

You won’t necessarily read this on any other astro blog, but I feel Gemini energy is the one sign that cannot be bought, at any price. That doesn’t mean they are above experimenting, and selling themselves. It just means whoever tries to get all of Gemini, doesn’t notice they’re actually getting less and less of the real core spirit within the person.

I find Gemini-influenced people to be the least impressed by money, or value. The cheaper the fun, the better. Think of the film Indecent Proposal. Yes, they do the deed for a million dollars – that’s the hook. But the real spirit of the film ends with a married couple having survived the prying of a stranger into their life, both married partners finding a place where no one could come between them. They needed one another to provoke multiple sides out of each other, that no one else could. That’s what duplicity, duality and the Twins are all about. Use that power well, and have lots of fun doing it.

What breaks us?

‘There’s always a job, always a job.’ – Another film for you. Focus, with Will Smith and Margot Robbie. I know you think I’m about to say Gemini is a sign prone to lying, but it’s one step further than that. It’s the job.

Don’t make your romance The Job. You both know there are two sides to a story, and you’re used to putting someone in the middle of the scene, experimenting with their reactions to see, more than just the truth or lie, into some undiscovered part of your relationship with them. Geminis want the whole story, and they’re usually willing to play anyone to get it.

‘Are you sure you want to call me a liar? Because I just tried to save your life’ – Nicky

‘By lying. Because you’re always lying, Nicky. I don’t know when you’re telling the truth. And now we’re dead.’  – Jess

Can it work between Gemini Woman and Gemini Man ?

Gemini energy isn’t that of a liar, it’s that of a good con artist (there are good ones). Like I said don’t make your relationship the con. If you have to run game, be partners in crime and con the world together. What Gemini wants is a story without an ending, where the unknown can always surprise you both. Stick to that principle and you won’t get hung up over honesty or morals, rather there’ll be something more principled in how you can genuinely trust each other on this adventure.

There isn’t much to say about how romance plays out between two Suns of the same sign, if you don’t know the rest of the chart (I can’t do this part for you from here – you either have to look up your chart or get in touch with me). Where the differences happen will be in the rest of your chart, if you’re a Gemini Woman courting a Gemini Man right now – or vice-versa.

Figure out how strong your Mercury leads your chart; it’ll factor in heavily for Geminis. It also makes a big difference, between one Gemini and another, whether you’re born at day or night (Mercury is the ruler of Gemini only by daytime). Figure out the rest of your ten planets if you’re having big differences and misunderstandings with another Gemini. That’s all I have to say here, when you need further insight into your lovers chart together – hit me up for an overnight reading here.


 

Leo Woman and Leo Man

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What makes us?

What could be better than same-sign partners? The idea may put your feet to sleep, if you like the idea of differences and electric passion, but same-sign marriages are the typically the most successful. With Leo-Leo, I’m going to gamble that you both have very old school expectations out of romance. They say fools rush in, but you won’t make each other feel foolish for it the quick pace Leo picks up once they’re locked into a love interest (small exception for Leos with a lot of Cancer or Virgo energy in their chart, who can be slow as treacle).

What breaks us?

This is another same-sign romance where timing is everything. Usually same-sign couples move too slow, never getting their attraction of the ground in time. This is one of the few romances where moving too fast is a bigger danger. They can often rob each other of their own momentum without meaning to do so. Does he like to weigh up his romantic decisions? She’ll find this offensive. Does she suddenly like to take the initiative? He’ll find this offensive. If you see where this pattern is going, there’s not much room left to let their hair down unless you can both be more adaptable to changes of gear, while dating.

Can it work between Leo Woman and Leo Man ?

If it does work, it’s likely they will be living this romance for the sake of impressing and winning favour with outsiders. I don’t mean that as a backhanded compliment. For some people, that’s a romance well lived and it’s refreshing. When you’re love is so obvious that it can win over perfect strangers, honestly… not many people have that in their arsenal. Even if they do, often they’ve afraid to grasp it and use it. This world is full people learning to play themselves down – don’t let Leo-Leo suffer a tame death among all the false humility society beats into you, from your twenties onwards. Be the couple that lets people bask in your glory. It’s needed.


There isn’t much to say about how romance plays out between two Suns of the same sign, if you don’t know the rest of the chart (I can’t do this part for you from here – you either have to look up your chart or get in touch with me). Where the differences happen will be in the rest of your chart, if you’re a Leo Woman courting a Leo Man right now – or vice-versa. This is especially true if one of you has Cancer or Virgo planets, where the other does not. With same-sign relationships, timing is everything. Differences in the chart will have you both needing to learn how to sync up with one another.

Figure out how strong your Sun leads your chart; and figure out the rest of your ten planets if you’re having big differences and misunderstandings with another Leo. That’s all I have to say here, when you need further insight into your lovers chart together – hit me up for an overnight reading here.

Aquarius Woman and Scorpio Man

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What makes us?

Aquarius and Scorpio is a godsend of a relationship when the circumstances are right, and I write this purely because these two signs are mirrored Suns. (Full explanation here.)

Throw in the fact Aquarius’ house of intimacy overlaps Scorpio house of trusted partners: this overlap gives her a rare opportunity to find mental, emotional and physical ‘presence’ in a relationship; really being there, without just being ‘there’. Be warned Scorpio, you need to find the right place in your life to be ready to make her feel like it’s OK to be vulnerable, without scrutinising her.

What breaks us?

See above about mirrored Suns. No one says unbreakable connections are easy to accept, nor do they guarantee either of you will gain the maturity to not take it for granted. There’s always a strong temptation for Scorpio to assume they know how to listen to Aquarius’ vulnerability, or for Aquarius to assume they know how to relate to Scorpio’s problems. Neither of you do; pretenses can be the death of you.

Can it work between Aquarius Woman and Scorpio Man ?

This can be a slow-burner in dating, and a fast meltdown in the commitment stage. You may still be thinking about one another long after the fact, if you decide to split up. Is he/she worth you both being marked for life?

I’m trying to talk you both out of it so that, if you both still want it, then it’ll work out like only you both know how to work it out.

Hell, you may not even both be in a relationship yet and still driving each other mad from the unresolved tension. You may let that tension even break up relationships with other lovers, who insist you two have more than a friendship going on. I get Aqua/Scorpio stories like that, all the time.

Work on acceptance without judgement, and especially on listening and respecting each other’s experience. How? Read on below.